How you see yourself is how others will see you. How you think of yourself is how others will think of you. So take an inventory of all the negative thoughts and ideas you have of yourself, cancel and delete them and replace them with all the wonderful, loving and most beautiful thoughts and visions of yourself. This is the real you. Once you focus on those positive qualities of you, you raise your vibration, your energy and your attitude to one of joy, happiness and confidence. You change how you see yourself and how others now see you.